Scrolling through the social media profiles of successful young men, an all too familiar feeling overcomes me: I notice my jaw tighten, a tingling on the top of my tongue, a tightness throughout my body, and a procession of thoughts that bounce between feeling alien and worthless relative to all the perfect individuals I’m witnessing, and a compulsion towards seeing their flaws or weaknesses and being superior to them (two polar responses coming from the same place of insecurity).